Long-Term Planning For Your Future

My husband and I have been married for thirteen years. We both have had our careers for almost that same amount of time. My husband has a 401K, while I have a pension and deferred compensation. But I constantly question myself, is that enough?

Angry Family on Christmas Day

I feel that sometimes we live paycheck to paycheck, and it is somewhat scary to think of the future. Although we have a good healthcare policy right now, the co-pays for doctor visits and prescriptions are getting more expensive each year.  Plus, our son is six years old and he has had some health issues throughout his life.

My parents are still working with my mom retired from her long term career and my dad still working.  I see my mom constantly juggling between two health insurance policies and the expenses.  What will it be like when we are older?

With our current economy, we are all struggling to get by.  We constantly are looking to cut our budgets and the “extras” in our lives. How will this impact our future? Will we be ok? Will our savings be enough? Will we have health insurance?  These are the things and questions that are currently going through my mind.  I plan to discuss some of these things with our accountant at the beginning of the year.

My grandmother passed away seven years ago.  My mom was her only child.  Luckily, my grandmother was very frugal with her money, and had a savings built-up. A few months before she died, she was diagnosed with cancer, and was in-an-out of the hospital several times. She finally came home from the hospital and was put on 24-hour Hospice Care.  Our family lived over an hour away, so my mom had to hire a Hospice Nurse.  It cost her several thousand dollars to make the arrangements, and unfortunately, my grandmother passed away within a week.

My friends, Janice and Susan, over at 5 Minutes for Mom have invited me to participate in a campaign with with Genworth Financial. This campaign is to raise awareness among moms about the importance of taking an active role in planning for their financial futures. I think as parents and families, we need to take a closer look at these things and our futures.

Do you have a plan for your long-term finances? Have you discussed this with your family?

Disclosure: This sponsored post is part a series we and several other bloggers are writing for Genworth Financial to raise awareness amongst moms about the importance of taking an active role in planning for our financial futures. To find out more about long term care planning or to talk to a financial professional visit Genworth Financial.

Wordless Wednesday: Fall Family Photo Shoot with DrewB

In early April, I contacted a fabulous and somewhat local photographer, DrewB, about scheduling an appointment for Fall/Holiday photographs for our family. We last took family photos in 2009, and it was time for some new ones. Drew was able to get me an appointment in October. She said that she was actually booked up for Fall already, in April. Because really, she is THAT GOOD!

I was lucky to meet Drew in person a few weeks after I had booked the appointment. We were both attending a craft night party.  Drew and I both agreed that we were not good with glue guns, and that we should stick with taking photos. Although Drew makes some very tasty cupcakes in a jar.

I first saw Drew’s photos on Julie’s websiteDrew’s photos of Julie’s family are always amazing. So you can image how nervous I was about this photo shoot. I completely freaked out about what we would be wearing and where we would take our photographs. Like everything else in my life, I should trust my instincts and just wait till last minute panic. I am a complete procrastinator and I do things better when I’m stressed out.  I bought my husband at least five different shirts to wear and ended up returning them.  I searched online for the perfect dress/skirt/outfit for me.  But in the end; my dress was borrowed, cardigan from my closet, shoes from e-bay, and the boys’ shirts were from Old Navy. We went to the Orange County Great Park to take our photos.  You can view the rest of our photo session on DrewB’s blog.

I think our photos turned out amazing. Angry Husband was not into any of my “great ideas” prior to the photos, but Drew was able to work her magic. And of course, my son was a total model for the camera. He would do anything that Drew told him to do, me not so much.  Seriously, I am a complete photo snob now.  After having these photos done, and see Drew’s work prior, I’m a bit obsessed about future photos.

I had a hard time figuring out which photo to do for our Holiday cards. The photo I selected is not pictured below. I wanted that to be a surprise.  I will be posting our Holiday card in a few weeks. I hope to do some kind of Holiday card link-up also.

Photo via DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography
Photo via DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography
Photo via DrewBPhoto by Drew B Photography
Photo via DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography
Photo via DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography
Photo by DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography
Photo via DrewBPhoto by DrewB Photography

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Welcome to “Angry Julie Monday’s Wordless Wednesday Linky”!

If this your first time here, HELLO! I do a link-up every Wednesday! Post a picture(s) and link back to it here. Wordless Wednesday is a great day to post an awesome picture that “speaks” for itself, no words needed.

Be sure to check out Wordless Wednesday Link-Ups at these other sites also:

Project AliciaBetter in BulkBy Word of Mouth MusingsDear CrissyFive Minutes For MomLive and Love…Out Loud, Parenting By DummiesSeven Clown CircusSupermomThe Divine Miss Mommy

Also, Lindsey from The Pleated Poppy does “What I Wore Wednesday” every week with a great big link-up.

And, I can’t forget Krystina from Lollipops whom does “What I Love Wednesday” every week with a great big link-up.


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Cookie Exchange Party Ideas

I have been invited to two Cookie Exchange Parties during the month of December. For one of the parties, I have to bring NINE dozen cookies.  They have to be homemade and have flour in them. Yikes!!! The only family recipe that I have is for sugar cookies, the kind you frost.  I mean those are amazing, but I need something brilliant.  I’m currently searching blogs and of course, my BFF, Pinterest.

Here are some of the pretty Cookie Ideas that I have found so far:

Colorful Spiral Cookies via Sprinkle BakesImage via sprinkle bakes

Colorful Spiral Cookies

Simple snowball cookies via Glorious TreatsImage via Glorious Treats

Let It Snow Cookies

Peppermint-Sugar-Cookies via Recipe GirlImage via Recipe Girl

Peppermint Sugar Cookies

Do you have any suggestions? Please share in the comments below!!

Disneyland During The Holidays

We recently went to Disneyland and Disney’s California Adventure for a fun day to check out all the festivities that they have going on for The Holiday Season.  Honestly, when Disneyland is decorated for the Holidays, it is my favorite time of the year. We headed into Disney’s California Adventure first.

Of course, everyone in my family was hungry so we to Taste Pilots’ Grill for lunch. My husband and son love going to Taste Pilots’ Grill. We always go there when we are at California Adventure. After filling ourselves up with food, we headed towards our first ride, Toy Store Mania!.  Along the way, we passed these really neat giant postcards advertising the new Cars Land which will be open next year. Cars Land is going to be huge, 12 acres.

Cars Land Coming Soon...

After taking the scenic route, we made it to Toy Story Mania. Angry Kid always puts on the 3D glasses and acts like a crazy kid. Here he is posing with his glasses on.

Project 365 322/365: Angry Kid is too cool with his 3D glasses for the Toy Story Ride. #disneyholidays

After going on Toy Story Mania!, we walked through California Adventure and headed towards the main gate of Disneyland. Angry Husband, his friend, and Angry Kid headed towards The Haunted Mansion while I met some fellow bloggers so that we could go on a scavenger hunt throughout Disneyland.  I teamed up with Ciaran of Momfluential, Caryn of RockinMama, Suz of Alive in Wonderland and OCFamily, Lisa of Babes in Disneyland, Shelby of Glitterful Felt Stories and especially to Heather of The Disney Food Blog.

Disneyland Railroad

My teammates and I set off for quite an adventure.  A large majority of our scavenger hunt involved us taking pictures of things on our list, and tweeting them out on Twitter. Unfortunately, my iPhone was at 52% battery left, which can go very fast, so I assisted on finding things on our list, rather than tweeting. Later that day, I set off on my own scavenger hunt, looking for wall outlets to charge my iPhone.  I brought my 10-foot iPhone charging cord, which made things a little easier. Before, we went on the hunt for some of the things on our list, we did some strategizing.

Blogger Scavenger Hunt at Disneyland

Caryn, Lisa, and Heather answering some of the questions on our scavenger hunt list.  We tried to get the easy stuff done first. Disneyland Trivia went fast with our Disney Savvy Group.  Ironically, we named our group, The Winners. After doing our preliminary tasks, we headed on our way. It turned into quite an adventure, almost like our very own Amazing Race, throughout Disneyland, of course. Ciaran did a great job of organizing all of the photos during the hunt.  And the best part, we found out later that night, that we were THE WINNERS!

Disney Scavenger HuntPhoto by Ciaran aka Momfluential.

While we were on the Scavenger Hunt, I was able to snap some photographs of the Holiday Decor at Disneyland with my DSLR.  Since we went throughout the park, I got some great photographs.

Christmas Tree on Main St. USA at Disneyland

My view of the Christmas Tree at the beginning of Main St. USA. This tree is over 60-feet tall, decorated with more than 2,000 ornaments, including the three-foot star on top, and has nearly 4,800 energy-efficient LED lights.

Reindeer at Big Thunder Ranch

Santa’s Reindeer Round-Up at Frontierland Ranch. They have real live and somewhat frisky reindeer, along with Santa and Ms. Claus. Santa is available for photographs, and we may have gotten a group shot with Santa during our Scavenger Hunt. The reindeer were partaking in some reindeer games, which in this case would be, getting angry with each other and fighting. I wouldn’t want to be in the middle of these animals. Although most of them were just hanging out.

Sleeping Beauty's Castle at Disneyland

Sleeping Beauty’s Winter Castle is decorated with Holiday wreaths and ornaments and coated with “snow” at the top.  The nighttime Sleeping Beauty’s Winter Castle light show is divided into three “acts” over the course of the evening. Each one begins at the Castle and travels the length of Main Street, U.S.A., finishing at the Town Square Christmas tree. Each act features a magical snowfall, and the final act concludes with “Believe…in Holiday Magic” fireworks.  The nighttime light show employs more than 200,000 points of light, 2,600 individual circuits and more than 85,000 individual wiring connections. Can you believe how much work goes into the nighttime activities at Disneyland? Wait, until you see my pictures at the end of this post!

A Christmas Fantasy Parade at Disneyland

I was able to catch the end of the Christmas Fantasy Parade but I was unable to get photographs, because people were standing in front of me, and I caught the tail end of it, near It’s A Small World. I love this parade because of the roller skating snowflakes. I love to watch the girls aka snowflakes, spin around.  I know it sounds cheesy, but it just reminds me of how special Disneyland is, during the Holidays. Since I did not get photographs this year, I went back into my archives.  I took some photos in 2009 of the parade, and I re-edited them. My photos are quite scary. I have improved quite a bit with my photography in the past two years.

After going on a few more rides, and charging my iPhone, we headed over to Disney’s California Adventure for a private dinner.  The Angry Family was tired, and needed to rest our feet.  Of course, I got some good photo opportunities while we were at dinner. And the dinner, was AMAZING.  Angry Husband and his friend, Jayson, were stuffed from eating so much.

A family portrait. Love the background with Sleeping Beauty’s Castle. Green screen of course.

Gingerbread CraftsSome crafts Angry Kid made.
Angry Julie, Phineas and Ferb

And my newest friends, Phineas and Ferb.

After a very filling dinner, we headed back to Disneyland to view the Believe… in Holiday Magic” Fireworks ShowWe centered ourselves in front of Sleeping Beauty’s Castle, for the fireworks performance. I may have posted about some obstacles that I had to overcome while watching the fireworks. I love the “snow” at the end. That is really the best part.

Fireworks at Disneyland
Fireworks at Disneyland
Fireworks at Disneyland
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Aren’t those fireworks just breathtaking? I love them all!!! After such a long day, we headed home. Of course, I had to get one last photo. I love the lighted trees in Downtown Disney.

Lit-Up Trees at Downtown Disney
It seems like I covered mostly everything about Disneyland and Disney’s California Adventure during the Holidays, but I didn’t. There are so many events going on at the parks with the attractions, entertainment, shopping, and dining that I can’t name them all. Please go to Disneyland’s site for more information about The Holidays at Disneyland and also, the Disney Parks Blog.

Disclosure: I received tickets and a invitation to a special event hosted by Disneyland.  I was not paid any cash. All opinions are mine. I would also like to thank Traveling Mom for organizing the scavenger hunt.

Project 365: Week 47

Last Saturday, we went to Disneyland all day, and enjoyed all of their Holiday events. We had a great time. My post about Disney will be up this week. On Sunday, Angry Kid and I were exhausted, so we just hung out at the house. We started prepping our decorations for Christmas early in the week. On Thanksgiving Day, I had to work so Angry Husband cooked. He sent me pictures of the food. And I was a crazy person and went to Macy’s at 12am with my mom on Black Friday, just to get more Fiestware pieces…CAH-RAAAAZY!

Project 365 322/365: Angry Kid is too cool with his 3D glasses for the Toy Story Ride. #disneyholidaysProject 365 323/365: Angry Kid is too cool with his 3D glasses for the Toy Story Ride. #disneyholidays

Project 365 323/365: Playing Monopoly Junior with my little gamer.Project 365 324/365: Playing Monopoly Junior with my little gamer.

Project 365 324/365: I went with the romantic theme for my @dominos pizza tracker.Project 365 325/365: I went with the romantic theme for my @dominos pizza tracker.

Project 365 325/365: Christmas Decor Prep is underway. All categorized: outdoor decor, indoor decor, and Christmas tree stuff. Husband is on a mission. #GriswoldsProject 365 326/365: Christmas Decor Prep is underway. All categorized: outdoor decor, indoor decor, and Christmas tree stuff. Husband is on a mission. #Griswolds

Project 365 326/365: Love this wreath that I saw at @TaiPanTrading aka TPT Home. Gorgeous!Project 365 327/365: Love this wreath that I saw at @TaiPanTrading aka TPT Home. Gorgeous!

Project 365 327/365: Husband texting me meal progress. The Creamy Mashed Potatoes via @thepioneerwoman's recipe. Yum!Project 365 328/365: Husband texting me meal progress. The Creamy Mashed Potatoes via @thepioneerwoman’s recipe. Yum!

Project 365 328/365: Yawn....Peacock Fiestaware for me while everyone else is buying rice cookers?Project 365 329/365: Yawn….Peacock Fiestaware for me while everyone else is buying rice cookers? #blackfriday

Turkeys Go Wild

Happy Thanksgiving!

New video series in pre-production: Turkeys Go Wild.
I worked during the day today. It went very slow. I came home and dinner was almost ready. Hello perfection. No fighting in the kitchen. No trips to the grocery store. I sat down and was immediately served food. My husband even did the dishes…frightening…

Angry Kid did some drawing and art last night. These umm turkeys have some bright tail feathers. I can totally see the next popular videos series, “Turkeys Go Wild”, which will be the animal version of “Girls Gone Wild”. I think we’ve got a hit on our hands.

I hope everyone had a good day.

I “think” my mom and I might be heading to Macy’s at midnight. Yes, we are crazy! But after our dinner tonight, I decided that I need to ditch my burgundy Fiestaware plates. As Julie says, “Peace out burgundy. You mess up the whole vibe.”

Wordless Wednesday: Holiday Decor Prep

Thanksgiving is on Thursday. How did it get here so fast? Of course, we are running around doing last minute things like we always do.  We are extreme procrastinators in the Angry House.

My husband works in retail so he gets quite busy during the Holiday Season. I get tired of begging him to get the Christmas stuff situated every year, so I begged/annoyed him to get everything organized early this year.  He pulled all of our totes and boxes down from the rafters of our garage Monday night.  He then proceeded to organize all the boxes into categories: outdoor lighting and decorations, indoor decor, and Christmas tree lighting/decorations. We have a faux tree which is still in the rafters, and won’t be pulled down until Sunday or so.

After we organized everything, Angry Husband walked around the house with a measuring tape. He was doing measurements for our lights.  We also discussed extension cords, and adding additional outlets to the exterior of our house. Angry Husband is on a mission. For the past two years or so, we’ve thrown up decorations last minute and we put no thought to it. Hopefully, everything will turn out right this year.  We can’t officially decorate the exterior of our house until Thanksgiving day I believe, because of our lovely HOA aka Home Owner’s Association.

Oh, all of those totes featured….that is not all of our Holiday Decor. We have more up in the rafters that we are not using…

Christmas Decor Prep is underway. All categorized: outdoor decor, indoor decor, and Christmas tree stuff. Husband is on a mission. #Griswolds
Speaking of Thanksgiving, I am doing a GIVEAWAY for a Teleflora Flowers Family Gathering Centerpiece this week. It ends on 11.26.11 at 12:01am EST.

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Welcome to “Angry Julie Monday’s Wordless Wednesday Linky”!

If this your first time here, HELLO! I do a link-up every Wednesday! Post a picture(s) and link back to it here. Wordless Wednesday is a great day to post an awesome picture that “speaks” for itself, no words needed.

Be sure to check out Wordless Wednesday Link-Ups at these other sites also:

Project AliciaBetter in BulkBy Word of Mouth MusingsDear CrissyFive Minutes For MomLive and Love…Out Loud, Parenting By DummiesSeven Clown CircusSupermomThe Divine Miss Mommy

Also, Lindsey from The Pleated Poppy does “What I Wore Wednesday” every week with a great big link-up.

And, I can’t forget Krystina from Lollipops whom does “What I Love Wednesday” every week with a great big link-up.



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Family Gathering Centerpiece with Giveaway

The Holidays are coming fast, and Thanksgiving is just in a few days. Although I’m working during the day on Thanksgiving, we are having people over for dinner that night. I’m making lists of things to have ready and prepped for our dinner party.  Tomorrow will be our last chance to get all of those last minute items that we need for our meal. But I think having a little festive decor will make it even more festive.

I’m always big on decorating for the Holidays, but Thanksgiving seems to get lost in the middle.  We go all out for Halloween and Christmas. Luckily, I saved some of our Halloween-Harvest decorations with pumpkins, and kept them out for a few more weeks.  Having a meal prepped and just thrown on the table is just boring. You want to make it special.  I love finding the right centerpiece for my table.

Teleflora Flowers just happens to have some fabulous floral centerpieces for your table. Wouldn’t that be a great gift to send ahead to the host/hostess of your Holiday meal?

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WIN A FAMILY GATHERING CENTERPIECE FROM TELEFLORA

Graciously gather your family around the warm glow and classic autumn colors of this stunning Thanksgiving centerpiece. A lush variety of burnt orange blooms are gathered under a pair of tall, graceful candles perfect for decorating your Thanksgiving dinner table, entryway or hearth.

  • Fall flowers include orange roses, orange asiatic lilies, dark orange alstroemeria, bronze button mums, yellow cushion mums, rust cushion mums, green oregonia and green huckleberry.
  • Accented with oak leaves and two orange taper candles.
  • Approximately 22″ W x 16″ H

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